Just One

I follow a lot of blogs and read more but Susie’s Senior Dogs has rapidly become a real favorite.  First there is Susie, a face that launched a blog to help find aging dogs their forever homes.  As many people know, we adopted a then-thirteen year old rescued West Highland Terrier about 18 months ago and readily attest to the love and joy you can give and receive from these ‘second chance’ dogs.

However this isn’t just about SSD but a post by a reader of the blog who volunteers at a high-intake shelter in NYC.  What she has to say resonated with me on many levels:  it saddened me, it angered me, it inspired me, and on a deeper level heightened my belief that each of us has the key to do something for someone else. What you are about to read is the full article with a short introduction from Erin at SSD, all in quotes and italicized.  You too may feel the many emotions I felt and that is a good thing.  I’ve added  a few comments and thought of my own at the end.

“We’ve said it before and we’ll say it again: Volunteers are heroes. Many volunteers put in full-time hours, yet they are still considered “volunteers” as their time is free and they do not get paid. They do it because they want to do it. The following story is from a volunteer at a high-intake city shelter. To avoid harsh comments and to keep our focus on the importance of volunteering rather than the politics of the shelter system, we have both decided to keep her story anonymous. An important difference to be aware of between a public, open admission shelter and a private “no-kill” shelter is that the public shelter is required to take in every animal (strays, owner surrenders, etc.) no matter what and a private “no kill” shelter has the option to turn animals away if they are too full. No-kill shelters may not be euthanizing animals, but they have the option to house homeless animals for however long it takes them to find a home. A public city shelter that has, say, only 50 kennels yet hundreds of animals pouring in each week, does not have the option to say “no” in the situation. The problem is deeper than just the shelter. This amazingly dedicated volunteer wrote,

“Hi, my name is [.....] and I work as a full time advertising sales executive. I am married to the love of my life and am a proud mama to our rescue dog. I am also a dedicated volunteer at a high kill inner city shelter. The girl pictured is my best friend, who like a lot of people, comes from a family who always bought their dogs and had never considered adoption until she learned about how many great dogs there are in shelters. When Susie recently asked me to share my thoughts on volunteering, she asked that I open up about the good, the bad, and the ugly…but, most importantly, what keeps me going. I can attest that volunteering at an open admission, inner city shelter takes its toll. The first thing I usually notice is the smell, which lingers in your nose long after you’ve left the shelter. Then there’s the noise – the harrowing sounds of dogs begging, crying, and pleading for help.

Then there’s 12PM: The time everyday at which dogs you’ve fallen in love with are euthanized because they got sick with kennel cough, an all too common but highly treatable doggie cold. I’m not going to say that volunteering at a place like this is easy. Because it’s not. It keeps me up at night and haunts me during the day. But what other choice do I have? The emotions of volunteering at a place like this pale in comparison to the pain that would ensue if I looked the other way. I simply cannot and will not pretend that these dogs don’t need me. And that is precisely what keeps me going back. The dogs. It will always be about the dogs.

The 6 month old puppy who was surrendered because he has too much energy. The 8 year old family dog who is trembling in my arms after her devastated owners were forced to give her up because of housing bans. The 6 year old ‘throw away mama’ who was used solely as a breeding machine her entire life. The dogs who spend 23 hours a day locked inside small kennels with only their confused and frantic thoughts. To help demystify what volunteering at a high-kill shelter is like (note that all experiences vary and there are hundreds of no-kill rescues who also need help), I’ll share exactly what I do at the shelter. I walk dogs, clean their kennels, and make sure they have fresh water. For 15 minutes, the duration of each individual walk, I give my heart and sole and undivided attention to the dog in my care. I’ve been told that dogs live in the moment, so I like to think that the smell of fresh grass invigorates [Ryan]. I imagine that the warm sun on [Buddy's] back reminds him that there is good in life. And I’m hopeful that the sights and sounds of people laughing in the park allow [Mabel] to forget – even if just for 15 minutes – that she is a homeless animal in a notorious high kill shelter.

With all that said, I guarantee that wherever you live, there is also a shelter or rescue in need. Go walk dogs. Offer to do laundry (shelters & rescues have mountains of dirty laundry). Clean kennels. Fill up water bowls. Fundraise. Advocate. If you have been thinking about volunteering, there is no better time than right now. Everyone has it in them to make a difference; all it takes is a desire to help.

‘I am only one. But still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. And because I can not do everything, I will not refuse to do the something that I can do.’ In addition to the above quote, my other favorite one that keeps me going is as follows: ‘If not me, then who? If not now, then when?’”

It’;s me, Pep, again.  Here are some of my thoughts:  if you are angry, advocate; if you feel challenged, accept it; if you are inspired, do one thing to make somone’s life better – you don’t have to travel to disaster areas unless you can, you can hold out your hand to someone in need or someone saddened by life; you can lend a hand to someone who needs to talk. It only takes 15 minutes.

I have long believed that the things we say and do make an impact – one we may never know about.  You may do some small kind gesture that is remembered forever or that impacts a person or family.  This is the message I take from this beautiful. compassionate woman.  Just do something.

The I Am Only One quote, widely associated with Helen Keller ( who said something similar) is attributed to  American author, Edward Everett Hale.  If Not Me attributed to many people is  associated to Hillel the Elder and more recently to Mikhail Gorbachev. My thanks to Susie Senior Dogs and Erin for her kind permission to use this article.

 

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Hats For A Purpose Year Four

Hat for a PurposeEven though it is far from chilly, I get excited when the first of the hand crafted hats for children start rolling in.  I can imagine the faces of the children who will wear these warm, cozy and colorful hats when the weather is cold and windy.  For the past several years we’ve collected and distributed over 1500 hats to children locally, and not so locally too.

My friend Cathy and the Northern Lake George Rotary Club just sent me 40 of her beautifully made hats.  I just love the colors and designs she selects.  We’ve also just received our preemie hats – tiny gems to keep the babies at the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit at the Albany Medical Center warm and safe.

For those of you reading about Hats For A Purpose for the first time, we collect and distribute handmade winter hats for children.  Who makes the hats?  Anyone who likes to knit, crochet or loom.  They come from as close as neighbors down the street to towns around the upstate New York area.  We’ve gotten hats from Arizona, Georgia and even Canada.  Where to the hats go?  Schools, churches, community centers and groups that clothe children for the winter.  If someone needs a hat for a child we are here to help.

I’d also like to find a more meaningful way to display the hats if anyone has any ideas.

Hats July 2014

 

 

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Realms of Gold

I grew up living on a country road in a small town in upstate New York.  There were no other children nearby so my friends all lived in books.  I helped Mary find the key to the garden, rode Black Beauty, sailed on the Hispaniola and solved mysteries with Nancy and so many more.  I was never lonely, never bored.

When I was about 8 I thought I would share my friends with the other people who lived on our road.  So I found a small table and piled some of my books on it and sat down at the end of the driveway hoping someone would stop.  Well they never did and eventually I discovered the public library and made many more friends.  But I’ve never forgotten wanting to share my books with others.

When I first saw these little library boxes on the news it reminded me of the importance of sharing our favorite stories and books with our friends and neighbors.  And then I opened the March edition of The Rotarian Magazine and discovered that Little Free Libraries had its start when a Rotarian in Wisconsin built the first one back in 2009 to honor the memory of his mother who was a teacher.

It’s exhilarating to see a great idea takes off and even more so when it’s made so easy that any one of us can do it.  Todd Bol, the founder and builder of the first boxes was quick to call me and agree to let me tell the story of Take One, Leave One.

Todd built the first one, a duplicate of a one-room schoolhouse, filled it with books, put it outside his home with a sign that said “Free Books” and with that the idea of building a grassroots network of these tiny libraries was born.  Soon joined by Richard Brooks whose several decade-long background in social marketing and international perspective meshed well with Bol’s background, the two had a “shared commitment to service and to the quality of community life around the world.”

As I peruse the LFL website, it doesn’t seem that they have missed a thing to help people and groups alike build these libraries.  Advice and ideas on how to get started, costs, creative ideas for the libraries, where and what books to select, placement, regulatory issues, marketing and pr guidance; it’s all there. But I am most impressed with the stewardship.

Building and maintaining these little free libraries is an awesome task, one filled with love but also filled with responsibility.  Everything you need to know and do to support and sustain one of these little treasures is all right on the website.  Registering your library, getting it on the global map, protecting it and sharing it with friends and neighbors will make sure it succeeds.  Check it out here.

I’m not 8 anymore and it’s taken all these years but my own Little Free Library will be up and running at my house by July 1.  My focus: the friends I made as a child.  My little table at the end of the driveway will be a little red wagon.  Follow me as I make this a dream come true and watch for some of my Rotary friends start their own Little Free Libraries.

 

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The Polio Bears of Rotary District 7190

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Winters are pretty cold here in the Great Northeast and making a conscious decision to jump into a freezing cold lake on January 1st takes more than courage.  It takes a reason so strong and so compelling that people who normally act quite sane are happy to take part in this annual event.

So on any given New Year’s Day you will find many Rotarians from District 7190 getting ready to jump into Lake George in upstate New York.  It’s a hardy band of high-spirited people called Polio Bears who annually take the plunge to raise money for polio eradication.

Initiated by the Wilton Rotary Club many years ago, Rotarians from the District’s 42 clubs joined the fun in 2007.   Usually led by the current District Governor the group gets together early in the day for a hearty breakfast and then begins the routine of prepping for the plunge.  Much laughter erupts when someone shows up wearing a funny hat or other crazy gear.

The bright red End Polio Now tee shirts are easy to spot from shore when the bell rings and everyone rushes into the lake.  You can hear how cold the water feels by the screams and shouts.  The water is usually about 43 degrees but it’s the wind chill that really determines how frosty you get.  Then it’s back to the shore for foot warmers, fleece wraps, hot cocoa, coffee or drink of choice, cheers and lots and lots of pictures.

District Governors who opt to stay on dry land find countless ways to raise money to stay out of the water.  And Rotarians who want the Governor to ‘go jump in the lake’ find countless ways to convince them to take the plunge.  This year, Rotarians raised over $10,000 to see the Governor get wet.

A great new event was added this year to give other Rotarians and their families a way to contribute to polio eradication and have a great time on New Year’s Day without getting wet.  Planned and put together by the End Polio Now committee,  eleven bowling alleys around the nine county district held the Pinning Down Polio Tournament with spectacular results.  More than 250 people took part in this fun day with almost $25,000 in total raised with donations still rolling in.

With the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation matching every dollar raised for polio eradication  with $2 this annual event raised over $75,000!!

Thanks to Dennis Austin and Ed Brown for the great photos

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Let’s Talk Turkey

What do you do when you find out there are children and families in your hometown without Thanksgiving Dinner?  Well, if you are TJ Tracy you say, “Mom we have to do something about this.”  And then go out and do it.  Again and again and yet again for the past four years.

Now 13, TJ has raised enough money during these past years to provide hundreds of Thanksgiving Dinners to the Franklin Community Center in Saratoga Springs, New York.  This year he is closing in on $10,000 which will also be used to give holiday gifts for children in the community.

After hearing his story, local residents stepped forward to support his mission.  Several local restaurants held Eat and Feed dinners with a percentage of the proceeds going to feed hungry children and families.  TJ has had many interviews with local media and the Saratoga Springs Rotary Club named him one of their 2013 outstanding citizens, the first time a young person has received this honor.

TJ has turned this grassroots fundraising effort into a mission to do something about the hungry children in our communities.  TJ knows this is about more than turkeys.  He knows this is one of the most important issues facing millions of children and their families in this country today.  And he has a plan.  A pretty big plan too.

 TJ’s assessment – if each of the 6o million children in the Untied States could raise $10 there’d be over $600 million to put towards feeding hungry children and families.   A really simple and kid -friendly plan that might just work and certainly capture the imagination of young people everywhere.  
Those of you who read my stories about people having the courage to step forward and make a difference know I particularly have high regard for children with the passion and courage to take on huge challenges.  Alex’s Lemonade StandFree the Children, and most recently , Nik Toocheck who is running marathons on every continent to raise money to buy brand new, warm winter coats for children in need.
Now I’m adding TJ to this list of movers and shakers – I’m going to follow where his passion leads him and let you know what’s next. For more information please check out his Facebook page ww.facebook.com/TJsTurkeys.
PS – what’s next?  Tonight TJ and his volunteers are shopping for Christmas dinner and school break breakfasts and lunches for 35 families.
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Hats On Parade

Each year I get the biggest thrill when hand knit or crocheted hats for children start rolling in.  I love looking at the colors, the designs, the newest patterns.  And then every winter I get another thrill as we pack them up to head to their new owners.  I love to look at each hat and picture the person who made it; the time it took, the love that went in to each stitch.

Hats For A Purpose, now in its fourth year, received hats from as far away as Arizona and Pennsylvania as well as our local Capital District area.  And it was a banner year – we are distributing over 150 hats in the next couple of weeks – think of the big smiles on the children’s faces when they get a brand new, beautifully made and warm hat.

Thanks to all of you who take part in this project.  Although you may never see the joy you bring to these children firsthand, your care and compassion knows no bounds.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and your families.

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Annette’s Hats

I love it when someone hands me a bag of brightly colored hand-made hats for children.  That happened just the other day – over 30 hats, some with matching scarves were donated by Annette to our Hats For A Purpose project.  My thanks and gratitude goes out to Annette for her skill and her warm heart.

According to the reports I’ve read, this winter stands to be bitter cold.  Children need to have warm outer clothing to go to school and play outside.  Hats For A Purpose, now in our 4th year, delivers lovingly handmade hats to local schools as well as around the region.  This year we hope to offer hats to children in other areas so if you know of anyone who needs hats we will make every attempt to send them.  Thanks to all of you who continue to support this project.  I wish it were possible to share the children’s smiles with you all.

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